I have had the pleasure and good fortune of working with Robin Samora of “Let’s Make You Shine” over the past several months. It has truly been a transforming experience.
Back in November of 2010, I was struggling along with my chapter book, Izzy B’s Notebook, feeling pulled by my varied interests—creating multi-media art, making angel/fairy jewelry, singing, playing guitar, etc., etc. (See my blog post dated 2/27/2011) Robin requested that I choose ONE thing to focus on and let her know when I had chosen what that was going to be.
I made the decision to focus on my writing, and everything began to fall into place. As I complete my coaching time with Robin this month, I feel more empowered, I have a finished manuscript, I have stepped into my new identity as a children’s book writer, and I am confidently moving forward in seeking a publisher for Izzy B’s Notebook.
Following are Robin’s answers to a few questions I sent her:
1. Robin, tell us a bit about your coaching business, “Lets Make you Shine”.
Let’s Make You Shine is a dream for me, blending over twenty years of business and coaching experience to help entrepreneurs and small business owners Shine in the Marketplace. I love to help people with a passion use their gifts to not only make more money, but also get recognized for who they are. To actually stand out in a crowded marketplace. It’s a wonderful opportunity for me to work either one on one with solopreneurs, or in small groups and really work on an inner and outer level with talented people, and bring out their best. Sometimes, we get lost in the hustle and bustle, and in trying to “make it happen”, rather than “allowing it to happen” if we put in the work. We have to focus on what’s important. When you address what’s important to you, and also lose the fear, amazing things happen, and prosperity is on its way. It’s all about making a decision to make a difference in your life, your business, and what you will share in the world. It’s about a commitment to you.
2. What specific benefits would a children’s book writer (or any writer) receive from working with you?
In my experience, writers work alone, and continuously critique, and over-critique their work. “Is this good enough” (sound effect – tear up the pages). “This stinks”, (I’ll eat some potato chips, and chew on that copy). “OK, this is good – I’m getting there”, (work for 5 hours straight, ignore the world and go to bed wondering). In the creative arts, we are our own worst enemy and often focus on what we “haven’t done”, versus our accomplishments. With a business coach, one is held accountable, and lovingly yet firmly, all the nonsense in our heads is put in perspective. If you want to be a writer, and get recognized for being one – you actually have to write. If you want to dabble, that’s fine… but my clients want to get recognized and realize their greatness, contributing to a bigger vision of who they are. They know deep down that they have what it takes to be a success, but aren’t living that life now. The power comes in flicking the switch and feeling – truly feeling — every inch of their gift. Ultimately, everyone who is successful has to own up to their biggest desires and dreams. They have to fully step into their power and say yes!, not only to me (their coach) but also to themselves. It’s a process where they declare that they are ready for action, ready to bring it on, and ready to get attention – in whatever way it will unfold for them! We never know how it will show up. That can be scary, but also exciting.
3. In your opinion, what is the most important thing for a writer who wants to be a published author?
A writer who wants to be published, has to do one thing. Write. If you want to be good at anything, you have to do it. In some form of disciplined action. Even the best classical pianist will practice the “art of their gift”. For a write, it may go like this: Write, review, rest, revisit, edit, rest, review in a few days. Writing is a process, and it takes time, but you also have to make space, and time for it. Just like going to the gym. Find the best time that works for you — every day, or every other day, and stick to an appointment with yourself. Put it on your calendar, and honor it.
One of the best pieces of advice I got was this – “The way you do anything, is the way you do everything”. If it’s important to you, make it important. Just as you can’t eat an elephant all at once, you can’t write a novel all at once. Just as a flower doesn’t bloom 365 days a year, neither will you. Liken yourself to an ocean, or the tide. Notice the ebb and flow – of ideas, energy, storms, and quiet, with the ultimate picture of perfection – in your work, in life, and everything is where it should be. We’re all in transition, and it’s all good. We are all valuable contributors but sometimes we forget that.
Hope you enjoyed this interview!
Angel Blessings, Susan